A LIFE WE ARE YET EXPECTING

By GINIKA RITA OKPALA

Can someone tell me why I need to rush life, why do I need to be bothered about vanities? They all pass by.

Dika this wasn’t the plan nah? So, if I had relocated to Enugu last month to build the Real Estate project with your team, you will just leave me stranded? My shock might even knock me off.

Many projects you have given me the opportunity of being a major partaker and a shareholder. Your Microsoft Tours and others.

I can’t even understand what I’m writing. Is this really a tribute? People kept calling me to confirm if it’s true! The month of June really dealt with me. I thought my heart will give way, for my heart beats became abnormal.

You were a wonderful body and soul. Dika will just be carefree when you are saying something very important, and I’ll be angry at him. I later learnt that such attitudes are good for life. Nothing too serious. Dika was a child of God, he taught me BANK OF GRACE, you wouldn’t know what that means, it should never be empty. A life of holiness and charity fills it.

Our journey together started in 2011, all thanks to UNIZIK school hostel. NFCS became a bond tying us inseparably. You became my child, brother, colleague and boss at same time. I was troublesome no doubt(smiles). But we stayed close even up to this moment. That family of Six will miss you!

Dika so much pushed me to achieve goals, resulting to me dodging him in order to avoid feedback. I am much aware that many others have volumes of things to say about you Nnaa.

Onyedika, are you leaving all those ideas half baked? Ordinarily, Bill Gates will be marveled at the things you would achieve with the world of technology.

So, I ask, does this mean there won’t be Dika09 again? No more Nyarinya? I’m just lost in the confusion of this reality. What am I saying even? I told my friends that you will rise. They said on the last day, but I insisted that the God of Lazarus and Dorcas is still my God. I have faith! I don’t know exactly what I’m saying but I prayed God to raise you, to give you one more chance. I hoped your Burial ceremony will turn into a thanksgiving ceremony. I leave everything in the hands of God. Whatever happens, I will always pray for you and your family.

Your Coordinators family miss you dearly.

Ginika misses you so much,Chai!

Dika09! Igiligi! No matter how many times you come back, you will be my friend!

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